This is a post I’ve tried to
write a few times and I haven’t gotten anywhere with it until now. It might be
good, but it might really crash and burn. Let me know your thoughts.
Women in Haitian society are
unfortunately delegated to a position of subservience and limited rights. Women
have the same constitutional rights as men, but the social and economic reality
for Haitian women is that they are seen as unequal to men. In the rural society
where I live women experience a distinct discrimination. Because most of the
work is physically demanding, the families make more moneyif the men work in
the fields. Unfortunately this creates a disparity in the homes. Most women
work in the homes and the men work in the fields. This creates a cultural
disparity where men will refuse to do any work outside of the fields, including
the physically demanding tasks like gathering water. Some men see their wives
as equals and will help with these tasks, but in many unfortunate cases women
are forced to walk two or three with large pots of water balanced a top their
heads. One of the reasons Pastor Pierre tires so hard to get more wells, even
in areas that have a well relatively close, is so that the women don’t have to
walk so far carrying water.
The most tragic consequence of
this social inequality is domestic abuse. Women are all too
often the victims of domestic and sexual violence and have few places to turn
when the abuse happens. During Carnival or RaRa there is a reported increase in
violence towards women, and there are many Vodou ceremonies that either involve
or instigate some type of sexual violence. During the military dictatorships
women suffer disproportionately to men and many women’s advocacy groups were
targeted. Women are also victims of their husband’s infidelity. I have heard
many cases where a husband will have children outside of his marriage and then
leave his first wife with his the family and move in with the other woman he
impregnated. Not only is this abhorrent behavior, in many cases it leaves the
woman in a disadvantaged economic position, unable to provide for her
children.
Despite the gender disparity,
there is one place where women are on a pretty equal footing with men, church.
Pastor Pierre has preached against domestic abuse and infidelity, and firmly
believes that a central part of Christianity is treating your entire family
with love and respect. Church services in Haiti are much longer than in the US and are
run much differently. Services last about two and a half hours, most of which
are scriptural readings, testimonies, and music. The sermon is only about 20
minutes, a much short proportion of the service than in American services.
Though Pastor Pierre or Pastor Evans will give the sermon every Sunday, women
are a prominent part of the whole service. The choir is all women, and women always
read from the lectern. The group of volunteers who run the different church
activities is also made up of both men and women. The most emotional part of
every Sunday service is the call to prayer, where people can pray at the altar
and have other members of the congregation pray with them. This is a pretty
emotional experience for the Haitians, and there is no gender disparity during
this time. Women pray with men and men pray for women, all praying as equals.
Pastor Pierre says, “I am always
on the side of women”. He says this in the folksy way he says a lot of things,
but he is being completely sincere. He preaches about the need for men to treat
their wives as equals and all of his success at the mission he either
attributes to God or to his wife. During Jesus’s ministry, he viewed women and
men as complete equals under God. Most scholars agree that one of the most
radical qualities of Jesus’s ministry was that he treated women as complete
equals. He preached to crowds of both men and women, which was unheard of in
his day, and was seen in public openly associating with women, something that
signified his value of women and was unseen in his day. Because our society is
so different from the biblical society of Jesus, many of Jesus’s teachings about
gender equality are lost to us. Luke 8:1-4 talks about how Jesus ministry was
composed of the twelve disciples as well as some women, including Mary
Magdalene. This is not just a contextual footnote, but rather a description of
Jesus’s radical decision to make women apart of his ministry, putting them on
an equal footing as his male disciples.
Since Pastor began the mission in
the 1980’s, it has been cultural force challenging many of the unhealthy social
norms plaguing Haiti. The Vodou practiced in La Croix when he began his
ministry was rather violent. Pastor Pierre told me that when he began to work
in La Croix, funerals for children were a regular occurrence because they were
killed during various Vodou ceremonies. Animal sacrifices were also quite
common; depleting many Haitians of their only source of wealth. Pastor Pierre
has been fighting these destructive practices since he got here, and will
continue to push the virtues of kindness and fairness for as long as he is
here. The goal of the mission is not to just alleviate poverty, but to fight
destructive cultural impulses and empower the community to care for itself.
Part of this empowerment means treating everyone, men and women, as equals. The
gender inequality in Haiti is an injustice to Haitian women, and on the outset
seems rather bleak. Yet when I see the progress Pastor Pierre has made and the
community he has empowers, I can’t help but be optimistic.
I went out on a limb with this post, and I don’t know if I’ll continue
to write like this. If you liked this post or didn’t like it, please tell me: vancleve.raymond@gmail.com. Thanks!
What is it about this post that makes you feel you are taking a risk by writing?
ReplyDeleteI think women in every culture and time have faced gender inequity and violence in some form or another. Your generation has been fortunate to grow up with relative gender equality. It must be a long and difficult road for the Pastor. Longstanding cultural roles and habits do not change easily.
Interestingly, I wonder if the 'shorter' sermon is a reflection of the Catholic influence in Haiti. Typically the sermon at Mass follows the scripture readings and is 15-20 minutes long.
I don't know where the "shorter" sermon comes from, but it very well might be from the catholic influence. Haiti is a pretty Catholic country.
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